DIVORCE?
If you are considering divorce you better know; it is exchanging one set of problems for another set of problems at best. If children are involved it will be very difficult for them. In such a serious action reality must be considered. Even in cases where it is felt to be absolutely necessary there will be a long period of bewilderment, hurting and adjusting. Amicable divorce rarely exists. This is the true reality not what you see in the movies or on TV. God provides a plan to do everything possible to look to Him,so a successful resolution might be found . If both partners are seeking to become whole and working together in forgiveness the best possible attempt to rebuild and renew the marriage covenant will exist.However, this cooperation and dedication might not occur with certain individuals. Many times a divorce is a chosen alternative.
If you are reading this and you are in any of these situations:
1. Pray for objectivity and God's guidance to seek the best possible outcome. Be willing to be made willing.
2. Love, above all things, is a commitment to seek the other's betterment. It is accompanied by emotion but commitment and loyalty must lead. True love perseveres until every door is closed to reconciliation. (I Cor.13)
3.Seek helpful qualified support and truth based Biblical counseling.
4.One of the resources I can highly recommend:
www.Divorcecare.org It is
an organization that focuses on helping and guiding families to wholeness and hope, through all truthful resources.
Please I plead with you, make every possible attempt to reach out to these and other qualified caring pastors, Biblical counselors and competent people. If divorce has already occurred you will also be helped to recover and find wholeness and hopefulness in this difficult adjustment.
I am here for you always! I care deeply and will assist you. Feel free to contact me.
Isaiah 53:4 KJV
"Surely He hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: "...
Jeremiah 29:11 KJV
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord , thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. (A future and a hope)"
